Monday, 17 August 2015





Penneswaran …..

When I was running a typewriting institute, he came and joined to learn typing, in 1975.  Actually he could not concentrate on typing;  even he could not type 2 lines properly and neatly which irritated me very much.  But he never cared either his bad typing or my disappoint with his sincere learning.   I used to appreciate him because he was very regular in coming to institute. 

Very quickly I came to know he was not inclined to learn typing.  But relished  to talk to me and also with a few of his friends in the institute.    He was not obliging me with the lessons what I used to give him to type, instead, he brought some of his poems and stories to type. 

He was very jovial and a good critic even at the age of 15 !  Though he had involved himself in many matters in institutewhich were not at all related to him, we all enjoyed his anecdotes!   We all used to laugh whatever he  shared in a very lighter way.

Though I was very strict in running the institute and in a highlly disciplined way, the same yard sticksnever apply to Penneswaran.   He never took any matter seriously.  He brushed aside everything.

He was so good in English as well as Tamil.   The exam time came and Penneswaran also appeared along with hundreds of students from our Institute;  after finishing typing, he came out of the  Hall very happily;  I wondered what he would have done in the hall. 

I was sure he would fail in the exams.    He was in a very happy mood and told to me not to both about him and his performance in the examination.  After 2 months results were declared ….. to my great shock …. Not only he failed …. he made some of his friends also failed by giving wrong answers to them in Mechanism part !   That is the great service he has rendered to the Institute.

Atlast, agood day arrived at for our institute.  He himself realized that he could not afford to waste his precious time in continuing typing further.  It was a very happy day for me that he stopped learning typing;  Meanwhile, our friendship grew like Himalayas.  Later he appeared Service Commission  Exams, surprisingly passed and left for New Delhi to join in the Ministry of Home Affairs.   Here, not only he passed the Exam, he guided many of his friends to appear in the examthus leading  a big gang to join their jobs in New Delhi. 

He is a very good writer, director and also an actor;  He staged many street plays and stage plays in New Delhi and other cities  and became very popular there within no time.  Today his circle is very large; 

I could easily see many top VIPs are very close to his heart and very proud, Penneswaran is not the person to take any advantage with those for his personal reasons.   Also, very happy to note, he is there with one of the leading tamil dailies, his wife is in Central Government Job and both of his daughters are well settled.  It is all the blessings of his honesty and God’s blessings. 

Due to his busy schedule, he could not meet me for some years,  we both were busy in our own ways.

It was a great surprise for me, in 2003 or 4, he came to my school in Krishnagiri.   He had visited our town on a personal reason.  He is always flooded with more tight schedules whenever he visits his native town Krishnagiri even today.  He enjoys attending Theru-koothuperformances,folk performances and visiting places of historic importance around Krishnagiri.
He was happy to see that I am running a school with difference.  I narrated him about the school and ideals which made me to start and run.  He was very much impressed and said all my good intentions should be known to the people who were at top level, ruling the country.    Not only said, he also took all his best steps to see that some top people at New Delhi should know.  He also assured me to take me to the President Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.  It was a dream for me indeed !   By that time, he took voluntary retirement from his job at Home Ministry and started a Tamil monthlynamed VadakkuVaasal.  It was such a wonderful monthly, with high quality articles.  No dirty cinema or gossiping, nothing nonsense items in that monthly.  That is his greatness. 

Though he was running VadakkuVaasalmagazine  with a great principle, he could not make money out of it.  He was losing money every month.  Of course there was neither any cheap articles nor any lady photo on cover to attract the majority public.   He could attract only a very knowledgeable circle.  He requested me to write education related society based article in his monthly.  I also very happily accepted.  I took that good opportunity to convey my thoughts to the society through my writings. 

One golden day, I received a call from RashtrapathiBhavan thatHon’ble President was willing to meet me in RashtrapathyBhavan, it was in 2006.   It was all the efforts of Penneswaran.   He used his influence in Delhi to achieve this.

He made all the arrangements to pick me from Airport, to stay in a decent lodge, gave me a big car on all 5 days;  he also arranged one of his close friend to  take me and my family to RashtrapathyBhavan;  we had a royal welcome on that day in RashtrapathyBhavan ! 

It was a most memorable day.  One would be really lucky to visit this great place in life.   President Dr.Kalam was so kind, he came out his seat for at least 50 feet to receive me;  with a great concern, he inquired about my health and the reason for my disability;  I went there with a wheel chair.   It was my first meeting with Dr. APJ Kalam.  How much I was lucky to start meeting such a great personality of India !

Again, after 1 year, Penneswaraninvited me to visit  New Delhi to attend a function in which Dr.Kalam was the Chief Guest along with Dr. Y.S. Rajan, an eminent Scientist;  Dr.Kalam and Dr.Y.S.Rajan are the authors of India 2020, such a close friend Dr.YSR to Dr.Kalam.Dr.Kalam launched the web site of Penneswaran’sVadakkuVaasal magazine.

I could easily see what was the contact level of Penneswaran in New Delhi.  It is most unfortunate that people in his native town of Krishnagiri still don’t know much about Penneswaran and his true capabilities.

During this time, I was writing articles in his mag and it was almost 4 years gone;  Dr.Kalam was one of the regular reader of my articles through VadakkuVaasal.  I humbly submit here-Penneswaran took all his efforts to publish my articles into a collection.  With the blessings of ArutselvarPollachiMahalingam he made arrangements to release my book in New Delhi Tamil Sangam; 

Dr. APJ Kalam launched my bookalongwith 4 books edited and published by Penneswaran and I again got a great opportunity to share the dias along with Dr.Kalam.   One must have been blessed by God for such golden occasions. 

Meanwhile I developed communications with Dr.Kalam, I received many letters from him. 

A few years ago, I started another school in a remote village, Savuloor, 2 km from Kaveripattinam;  I am much interested in agriculture and organic farming;  here in this rural school I have allotted ten thousand square feet for this agri education;  students are directly involved in the agri field work;  I was so serious in it;  I wanted the students should know about agri and organic farming for their bright future.  When Penneswaran visited this rural school, he was very much inspired by my vision and this went to the knowledge of Dr.Kalam.   Penneswaran played a key role in bringing Dr.Kalam to our rural school to inaugurate this Organic Farm in our rural school in 2013, October 2nd, Gandhi Jayanthi Day.  

What a great day that was !   We could feel the happiness and proud moment even today while remembering that golden day.  We can’t get such a great occasion so easily.  Dr.Kalam came, planted a sapling, inaugurated the Organic Farming and spoke to the children and public for an hour.  Everyone is proud even today by remembering Dr.Kalam and his speech.  

Dr.Kalam by heart appreciated me on my vision on Agriculture in School;  he promised to give all his help;  he mentioned about this Organic Farming of our school in many Universities and other top Institutions;  even just two days before his death, he conveyed his best wishes towards my wish to bring agri education at national level.   On his request ShriNarayanamurthy and Dr.SantoshBabu IAS, our former District Collector have been helping me very much.  I am sure, with all the blessings of Dr.Kalam’s wishes and blessings, I will see agriculture will be one of the subjects in School curriculum sooner at National level. 

Today Dr.Kalam is no more with us.  Hundreds console me in person and over phone;  many magazines have interviewed me on Dr.Kalam’s demise;  I was interviewed by All India Radio, asked me to say my friendship with Dr.Kalam for the past 10 years.  Almost all the news papers published the photos of Dr.Kalam’s visit to our rural school, inaugurating the organic farm while pushing my wheel chair.  

A friend in need is a friend indeed;  Penneswaran set an example for friendship, what do you need more this this, in one’s life !  I am proud of him, I thank God for it. 


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Friday, 27 March 2015



rhap g[d;

tpahof;fpoikf;F xU jdp tpNr\k; cz;L.  = uhfNte;jpuUf;Fk;> = rhap ghghTf;Fk; g+i[fs; nra;a xU rpwg;ghd ehshFk;.  mNj Nghy  vdf;Fk; vd; FLk;gj;jhUf;Fk; tpahof;fpoik vg;NghJNk rpwg;ghd ehs;.  me;ehspy; khiy Ntisfspy; xU kzp Neuj;jpw;F rhap g[d; nra;Nthk;.  ehq;fNs ghl;L ghLNthk; my;yJ Nlg; nuf;fhh;lh; %yk; ghl;Lf;fis Nghl;L g[d; nra;Nthk;.  mg;gb $l xU rpy rkaq;fspy; Kbahj epiyapy; fk;g;Al;lhpNyh> b.tp.apNyh g[d; ghl;Lf;fis Nghl;Lf;Nfl;L mikjpahf mkh;e;J jpahdk; nra;Nthk;. 

rhap g[d; nra;Ak; NghJ kpFe;j cw;rhf;Jld; xU %iy KLf;F tplhky; tPL KOJk; Rj;jk; nra;Nthk;. Cleanliness is next only to Godliness.  Rj;jk; vq;F ,Uf;fpwNjh mq;Nf flTs; ,Ug;ghh; vd ahNuh nrhy;yf; Nfs;tp gl;bUf;fpNwd;.  fe;;ijahdhYk; frf;fp fl;L vd;gijAk; gbj;jpUf;fpNwhk;.  mjdhy; ,e;j g[d; ehl;fspy; Rj;jkhfTk; me;j miwia kpfTk; mofhfTk; itj;Jf;nfhs;s tPl;by; cs;s midtUk; Rj;jk; nra;tjpy; <LgLthh;f;s;. 

ed;whf rpe;jpj;J ghh;j;jhy; tPl;il Rj;jk; nra;fpNwhk; vd ehk; nrhy;Yk; me;j thh;j;ijf;F mJ cz;ikahd mh;j;jk; mJ my;y.  mt;thW tPl;il Rj;jk; nra;Ak;NghJ ek; kdJk;> vz;zq;fSk;> nra;iffSk; gf;Ftg;gl;Lk>; Rj;jg;gl;Lk;> NkYk; Nkd;ikailfpwJ vd;gJjhd; Rj;jj;jpw;F cz;ikahd nghUs;.  ek; kdij Nkd;ikgLj;jpf;nfhs;s gy topfs; Mz;ltd; ekf;F nfhLj;jpUf;fpwhh;. ,jpy; jpahdk; kw;Wk; $l;lhf ghLtJ vd;w gy epiyfs;.   

,e;j g[d; Kbj;jJk; mLj;j thuk; tiuf;Fk; xU kfpo;r;rpahd ehd; ,Ug;gij czh;e;jpUf;fpNwd;.  ,ij Mq;fpyj;jpy; vibration / aura  vd;ghh;fs;.  ,jdhy; tpahof;fpoikfspy; rhap g[d; nra;tij ehd; 10 tajpypUe;Nj fil gpbj;J tUfpNwd;.  mjhtJ xU 50 tUlq;fhsf rhap g[d; nra;J tUfpNwd;.  New;W g[d; nra;jjpy; xU tpNr\k; ,Ue;jJ.  vd;Dila ikj;Jdhpd; xU 6 khj Foe;ijf;F jpBnud clYf;F gpur;id te;J tpl;lJ.  ahUNk rw;Wk; vjph;ghh;f;fhj xd;W.  cldbahf gf;fj;jpYs;s ngq;fShpy; cs;s xU nghpa kUj;Jtkidf;F  vLj;Jr; nry;Yq;fs; vd;W nrhy;yp tpl;lhh; cs;Sh; FLk;g kUj;Jth;.  xU nehbapy; FLk;gj;jpYs;s mikjp vy;yhk; gwe;J tpl;lJ.  vy;NyhUila kdjpYk; xU ,Wf;fk; Vw;gl;L tpl;lJ.  Foe;ijia J}f;fpf;nfhz;L ngq;fSUf;F vy;;NyhUk; gwe;J tpl;lhh;fs;.  ehDk; vd;Dila ,uz;lhtJ kfs; kl;LNk ,Ue;Njhk;.  Foe;ijf;F vJTk; Neh;e;J tplf;$lhNj vd;w ftiyNa NkNyhq;fp epd;wJ.  cs;Sh; lhf;lh; VNjNjh nrhy;yp gaKWj;jp tpl;bUe;jhh;.

g[idf;fhd Vw;ghLfis nra;a Muk;gpj;Njhk;.  mofhd Kiwapy; rhap g[idg; ghly;fis jpUkjp gp.RrPyhTk;> rpj;uhTk;> Kk;igapYs;s jpU NrhD epfhKk; ghbatw;iw fk;g;Al;lhpy; itj;Js;sij xU ,uz;L kzp Neuk; Nghl;L> rpy ghly;fis mjDld; ghbNdhk;.  kdjpYs;s ,Wf;fk; Fiwe;jJ.  ey;y nra;jpNa tUk; vd;w ek;gpf;if nfhQ;rk; nfhQ;rkhf tuj; njhlq;fpaJ.  my;;yJ ek;Kila ghuj;ij flTs; Nky; Nghl;L tpl;L mth; ghh;j;Jf; nfhs;thh; vd;w kdg;gf;Ftk; ek;Ks; Vw;gl;bUf;fyhk; vd epidf;fpNwd;.  mNjNghy ,uz;L  kzp Neuk; fopj;J Foe;ijf;F nra;j vy;yh nl];LfspYk; ftiyg;gLk;gb ve;j gpur;idAk; ,y;iy vd nra;jp ngq;fSh; kUj;Jt kidapypUe;J vd; kidtp njhiyNgrp %yk; nrhd;dhh;.  ek;gpf;if> epk;kjp vd;gjw;fhd cz;ikahd mh;jj;ij ,ijg;Nghy jUzq;fspy;jhd; ,iwtd; ekf;F czh;j;Jfpwhh;. 

,ijg;Nghy fbdkhd re;jh;g;gq;fis E}w;Wf;fzf;fhd jlitfs; vd;Dila tho;f;ifapy; mDgtpj;jpUf;fpNwd;.  ghghit epidj;J mth; ghh;j;Jf;nfhs;thh; vd mthplNk tpl;L tpLNtd;.  vy;yh epiyfspYk; mtUila mUs; vdf;F nfhLj;Js;sij ehd; ed;F mwpNtd;.  mijnay;yhk; ,q;Nf vOjNtz;Lk; vd ehd; epidf;ftpy;iy.  ghghit gw;wp Nfhbf;fzf;fhdth;fs; NgrpapUf;fpwhh;fs;> ,d;Dk; Ngrpf; nfhz;Nl ,Uf;fpwhh;fs;> vOjpapUf;fpwhh;fs;> mJNt NghJk;.  

1960fspy;> vd;Dila rpwpa tajpy; vq;fs; tPl;bw;F tUk; gyUk; rhap ghghit gw;wpAk; mth; kf;fSf;fhf Mw;wp tUk; njhz;bidAk; gythW nrhy;yp nrhy;yp tpag;gilthh;fs;.  gyh; gytpjkhd cly; cghijfshYk;> kUj;Jth;fshy; iftplg;gl;lgpd; Gl;lgh;j;jp (ghgh gpwe;j ,lk;) nrd;W mtiu tzq;fp> jq;fSila Fiwfis nrhy;yp jq;fSila vy;yh gpur;idfSk; fz; ,ikf;Fk; Neuj;;jpy; xU Mr;rhpaj;ij epfo;j;jp ,d;W ey;ygbahf tho;e;jij ghh;j;jpUf;fpNwd;.  mthpd; ,ijg;Nghy cjtpfis ngU kfpo;r;rpahf nrhy;ypf;nfhs;tij Nfl;L> kpFe;j mstpy; tpag;gile;Njd;. mJ kl;Lky;y> clystpy; ngUk; Fiwfis mDgtj;J te;J gpwF ghghit jhprpj;J te;jgpd; mth;fSila me;j cly; cghijfs; mwNt ePq;fp ey;ygbahf xU rpy khjq;fspy; thoj; njhlq;fpaij ehd; fz;zhu fz;lgpd; ghghtpd; Nky; xU jdp gf;jp vd;Ds; Vw;gl;Lf;nfhz;bUg;gij czuj; njhlq;fpNdd;.   ghgh fpU\;zfphpf;F 2 Kiw te;jpUf;fpwhh;.  mtUila gf;jh; xUth; ghghit vq;fs; CUf;F mioj;J te;jpUe;jhh;.  me;j rkaj;jpy; ehDk; mq;F nrd;Nwd;.  ghghit kpf kpf mUfpy; fz;l ghf;fpak; vdf;F fpilj;jJ.  vq;fsplk; mth; kpfTk; md;ghf Ngrpdhh;.  ey;yijNa epidAq;fs; ey;yNj elf;Fk; vd;gij mbf;fb nrhy;yp vy;NyhUf;Fk; ek;gpf;ifiaAk;> cw;rhfj;ijjAk;  Cl;b nrd;whh;. 

ey;yJ nra;gth;fs; vy;NyhUNk flTs; vd;w nfhs;if cilatd; ehd;. ve;j tpj gyDk; vjph;ghuhky; gpwUf;F cjtp nra;J tUgth;fis jpdKk; ehd; fhz;fpNwd;. ey;yJ nra;aj;jhNd flTs; ,Uf;fpwhh; !  Mf ek; Kd; Mapuf;fzf;fhd flTs;fs; ,d;dKk; trpj;J nfhz;Ljhd; ,Uf;fpwhh;fs;.  mjdhy;jhd; ghghit mth; thoe;j fhyj;jpy; thOk; flTshf fz;lhh;fs;.  ,d;Wk; ghgh ek;Kld; ,Uf;fpwhh;> vd;Wk; ghgh ek;Kld; ,Ug;ghh; ….. ,Jjhd; vd; ek;gpf;if> Nfhbf; fzf;fhdth;fspd; ek;gpf;if.  ey;y ek;gpf;iffs; epr;rak; tPz; Nghtjpy;iy.  vJ ekf;F> ve;j jUzj;jpy; nfhLf;f Ntz;Lk; vd;gJ flTSf;;;F njhpAk;;; vd;w ek;gpf;ifAk; ekf;F vd;nwd;Wk; Ntz;Lk;.  Mz;ltdplk; ifNae;jp epw;f NjitNa ,y;iy. 


After all our faiths can move the mountains !




Monday, 5 January 2015



ehDk;  jpU Nf. ghyre;jUk; . . . . .



,thpd; Kjy; glkhd ePh;f;FkpopNa vd;id ghjpj;J tpl;lJ.  mjw;fLj;j etf;fpufKk; mg;gbNa.  Kw;wpYk; xU Gjpa rpe;jidahsh; jkpo; gl cyFf;F te;J tpl;lhh; vd;gijNa me;j Muk;gg;glq;fNs jkpo;gl urpfh;fSf;F czh;j;jpaJ.  mjw;fLj;J te;j rh;th; Re;juk;> Nk[h; re;jpufhe;j; Nghd;w glq;fs; mtiu ntF tpiutpy; xU caukhd ,lj;jpy; jkpo;g; gl cyfk; itj;J tpl;lJ.   Nk[h; re;jpufhe;j; Nghd;w fijaikg;ig nfhz;l xd;iw> fjhehafp ,y;yhky; xU glkhf nfhLf;f KbAk; vd;gij vt;tsT ,af;Feh;fshy; nra;a KbAk; vd;gJ xU nghpa Nfs;tpf; Fwp>  Fwpg;ghf ,d;iwa gl cyfpy;.  Nf.gpapd; glq;fs; fjhehafidNah> fjhehafpia itj;Njh mike;jJ kpfTk; rpytw;Nw.  “Nf.ghyre;jhpd; glk;” mJjhd; mtUila Kj;jpiu.  jd;Nky; mjPjkhd Kiwapy; ek;gpf;if itjj;jpUe;jth;.  mtUila gy glq;fspd; trdq;fs; ek; tho;f;iff;F Kd;Djhuzkhf ,Ue;jd.  rh;th; Re;juk; glj;jpy; ehNf\; NgRk; f\;lk; vd;gJ xU rpwpa fy;> mij fz; Kd; itj;J ghh;j;jhy; cyfNk njhpahJ> mNj fy;iy rw;W J}uj;jpy; itj;J ghh;j;jhy; f\;lk; vd;gJ ek; tho;f;ifapy; xU rpwpa epfo;r;rpjhd;” vd;gdtw;iw vkJ gs;spapy; khzth;fSf;F Nghl;Lf;fhl;b mth;fspd; jd;dk;gpf;ifia Cf;Ftpf;f NgUjtpahf ,Ue;jJ. 

jkpo;gg; gl cyfpy; urpfh;fs; vk;.[p.Mh;. kw;Wk; rpth[p ebj;j glq;fSf;F Njbj; Njbr; nrd;w urpj;j fhyk; mJ.  ebfh;fSf;fhfj;jhd; gl cyfk; vd;wpUe;j epiy.  ebfh;fspd; Kfq;fis nghpjstpy; Ngh];lhpy; Nghl;lhy;jhd; glk; XLk;> gzk; gz;z KbAk;.  ebfh;fSf;fg;ghy; jkpo; gl urpfh;fs; NtW ahiuAk; ghh;f;f jahuhf ,y;iy.   ,e;j fhyf;fl;lj;jpy;jhd; Nf.ghyre;jh; jkpo;g;gl cyfpy; Eioe;jhh;.  Ve;j xU nghpa ebfiuAk; itj;J ,th; glk; gz;ztpy;iy.  mijg;Nghy vz;zKk; ,thplk; ,y;iy.  rz;ilf; fhl;rpfNsh> mgj;jkhd eifr;RitNah> Njitaw;w ghly; fhl;rpfNsh vd;w ve;j xU krhYk; ,th; glq;fspy; ,y;iy.  xU ey;y glk; nra;a jd; vz;zKk;> ciog;Gk;> ek;gpf;ifAk; kl;LNk NghJk; vd vz;zpdhh;.  ,af;Feh; ahh; vdf; fz;lwpe;J ,th; glq;fisf; fhz kf;fs; jpNal;lUf;F nry;tij Muk;gpj;jth; Nf.gp. 

msthf NgRthh;.  Mokhf rpe;jpg;ghh;.  jsq;fspy; fLikahf ciog;ghh;.  ebf;fNt njhpahjth;fisf;$l ey;y Kiwapy; ebf;FkhW nra;jhh;.  gok; ngUk; ebfh;fis itj;J  glk; vLg;gij tpl> GJ Kfq;fSf;F xU ey;ynjhU tha;g;gpid nfhLj;J> jd; vz;zq;fis ,e;jpa cyfpw;F mwpar; nra;jhh;.  ,ijg;Nghy xU rthiy jd; tho;ehs; ,Jjhd; ek; vy;NyhUk; mtiug; ghh;j;J tpaf;f itj;j xd;W.  mtUila gy glq;fs; xU Kiw ghh;j;jhy; mt;tsthf GhpahJ …. gy Kiw ghh;j;jhy;jhd; mtUila rhpahd Nehf;fk; GhpAk;.  ,d;Wk; $l mG+h;t uhfq;fs; glj;ij ghh;j;jhy; VjhtJ xU Gjpa nra;jp fpilf;Fk;.  mtUila mts; xU njhlh;fij vd;w xU glj;ij itj;J 10 glq;fs; nra;ayhk;.  ,ijg;Nghy gy glq;fis nrhy;ypf;nfhz;Nl Nghfyhk;.  ,tUila glq;fis ghhh;j;J tpl;L gy ehl;fs; mijg; gw;wpNa ngrpf; nfhz;bUg;Nghk;.  mts; xU njhlh; fijapd; fpilkhf;]; Nghy NtW ve;j ,af;FeUk; nra;a KbahJ. 

vdf;F kpfTk; neUq;fpa lhf;lh; Kdhg; mfkJ  “ehDk; vd;Dila kw;w 4 ehz;gh;fSk; nkbfy; fhNy[py; gbj;Jf; nfhz;bUe;j Ntis mJ.  ehq;fs; ey;y Kiwapy; gbj;J te;Njhk;.  me;j rkaj;jpy; Nf.gp.rhh; glq;fs; ntspte;J nfhz;bUe;jd.  Ngh];liu ghh;j;jTlNdNa ,tuJ glj;ij Kjy; ehNs Ngha; ghh;j;J tpLNthk;.  gpwF gy ehl;fs; mijg;gw;wpNa Ngrpf; nfhz;bUg;Nghk;.  ,jdhy; vq;fsJ gbg;Gk; rpwpjsT ghjpj;J tpl;lJ.  Mdhy; mijg; gw;wp ehq;fs; ftiyg;glNt ,y;iy.  me;j mstpw;F ,tuJ glq;fs; vq;fis ghjpj;J tpl;lJ”.    

,ijg;Nghy Fiwe;jJ vd;dhy; ghyre;jiug; gw;wp xU tUlk; KOJk; Ngrpf;nfhz;Nl ,Ug;Ngd;. 

,th; glk; vLg;gij epWj;jpaTld; ehDk; vd; ez;gh;fSk;> ghyre;jNuhL jkpo;g;gl rfhg;jk; Kbe;J tpl;lJ vd;W KbntLj;J tpl;Nlhk;.  2000fspy; vdf;F jpU ghyre;jNuhL xU neUf;fk; kw;Wk; el;G Vw;gl;lJ. mJtiu fbjq;fs; vOjpf;nfhz;NlapUg;Ngd; mtUf;F.  xU ehs; mth; vd;id jd; tPl;bw;F tur;nrhd;dhh;.  me;j re;jpg;ig vq;fs; FLk;g ez;gu;fshd jpU RNu\; fpU\;z%h;j;jpAk;  mtUila kidtp kw;Wk; fh;ehlf rq;fPj ghlfp jpUkjp mDuhjh fpU\;z%h;j;jpAk; Vw;ghL nra;jpUe;jdh;.  me;j Neuk; mtUf;F ,uz;lhtJ jlitahf khuilg;G Vw;gl;L khbapy; Xa;T ngw;wpUe;j Ntis.  vdf;fhf mth; fPNo ,wq;fp te;jhh;.  me;ehs; vd; tho;tpy; xU Kf;fpakhd ehs; vd;W ,d;wsTk; vz;zp kfpo;fpNwd;. 

md;W Kjy; vg;NghJ nrd;id nrd;whYk; mth; tPl;bw;F nrd;W; mthplk; nfhQ;r Neuk; Ngrp tUtij tof;fkhff; nfhz;bUe;Njd;.  vg;NghjhtJ ehd; rpy rkak; nry;yhj epiyapy;> jd;Dila nrayhsh; jpU Nkhfd; mth;fsplk;> Vd; rdj; Fkhh; rpy ehl;fshf tutpy;iy vdf;Nfl;Fk; mstpw;F vq;fsJ me;j mofhd> Mokhd el;G ePbj;jJ. mg;gb mth; vd;idg; gw;wp Nfl;Fk; epiyapy; ve;j NtiyapUe;jhYk; mg;gbNa Nghl;L tpl;L nrd;id nrd;W Nf.gp. rhiu ghh;j;J Ngrp tUNtd;. mij xU nghpa kfpo;r;rpahd jUkhzkhfTk;> ngUikahfTk; milNtd;.   mtUila glq;fis gy Kiw ghh;j;J myrpapUf;fpNwd;.  ik#hpy; ehDk; mth; kl;LNk xU jdpaiwapy; rpy kzp Neuq;fis fopf;Fk; ghf;fpak; vdf;F fpilj;jJ.  jdf;F Vw;gl;l gy mDgtq;fis vd;dplk; gfph;e;J nfhz;lhh;.  Rhpjh vg;gb jhdhfNt te;J rpy fhl;rpfis ebj;J fhl;bdhh; vd;gdtw;iwnay;yhk; tpsf;fpdhh;.    ehd;F Rth;fs; vd;w glj;ij gw;wp Fwpg;gpl;L> ,ij Vd; vLj;jPh;fs; vdf; Nfl;ljw;F kpfg; nghpjhf rphpj;J tpl;L> mijg; ghh;j;jPh;fsh ?  rpy rkak; ,ijg;Nghy elg;gJk; cz;L vd;W nrhd;dhh;.  vd;WNk kwf;f Kbahj jUzq;fs; mit. 

mtUila rfhdh rPhpay; xU gpukhjkhd xd;W.  rpdpkh vLg;gij Nghy ,jw;fhf ,th; cioj;jpUe;jhh;.  rpe;J igutp vt;tsT mofhf ,Ue;jNjh> mNj nghy ,e;j rfhdh rPhpaYk; ,Ue;jJ.  ,irf;F kpfTk; gpukhjkhf tbtk; nfhLj;jpUe;jhh;. 

vd;Dila fpU\;zfphp gs;spf;$lj;jpy;; Foe;ijfSf;F ghlq;fis b[pl;ly; Kiwapy; rpdpkh ghh;g;gijg; Nghd;Nw ghlq;fis nrhy;ypf; nfhLf;f 100 Foe;ijfs; mkuf; $ba xU jpNal;lh; xd;wpid fl;b mjid Nf.gp.rhh;jhd; jpwf;f Ntz;Lk; vd;W Nfl;Lf;nfhz;Nld;. mtUk; rk;kjpj;J> vq;fs; CUf;F te;J> jpNal;liu jpwe;J itj;J> Nkilapy; nghJ kf;fsplk; Foe;jijfsplKk; Ngrp> vq;fNshL kjpa kw;Wk; ,uT cztUe;jp> gytw;iw Ngrp kfpo;tpj;jhh;.  vd;idg; gw;wp jdpg;gl;l Kiwapy; mjpf Neuk; tprhhpj;J njhpe;J nfhz;lhh;.  Jd;Dila ,e;j epfo;r;rpf;F gs;sp tshfj;jij kpfTk; mofhf> Neh;j;jpahf moF gLj;jpaij epidT $h;e;jhh;.  md;W mth; Nkilapy; mkh;e;jNghJ> mtUld; vkJ gs;spapd; Kd;dhs; khzth;fs;jhd; mkh;e;J KO epfo;r;rpfisAk; elj;jpf;nfhLj;jijr; nrhy;yp gyKiw tpae;jhh;.  mJ vkJ gs;spapd; rpwg;gk;rk; vd;gij ehd; nrhd;dNghJ jd;Dila Mr;rhpaj;ij nghpa mstpy; njhptpj;jhh;.  ehDk; gs;spapd; ve;j xU epfo;r;rpf;Fk; Nkilf;F nrd;W mkh;e;jNj fpilahJ.  vy;yhNk Foe;ijfis itj;Jjhd; epfo;r;rpfis mikg;Nghk;.  ,J xU ,UgJ tUl tof;fk;.  ehd; fPNo xU kuj;jpd; gpd;dh; mkh;e;J epfo;r;rpfis ftdpj;J te;jij ghh;j;J> “xU gj;J Ugha; nryT nra;J E}W Ugha;f;F tpsk;guk; Njbf;nfhs;Sk; ,e;j fhyj;jpy;> ,g;gb nghpa mstpy; gs;spia elj;jp> mofhf Nkil Nghl;L> vJTNk fhl;bf;nfhs;shky; Nkilf;F fPNo Xh; %iyapy; mkh;e;J ftdpj;J tUk; ,e;j rdj; Fkhiu epidf;Fk; NghJ> kdJ fdkhfpwJ” vd;W nrhy;;ypaJ> vd;id NkYk; gzpa itj;J tpl;lJ.   

mjd; gpd; gpuh\he;jp vd;w xU jpNal;liu jpwe;J itj;jjhh;.  me;j tpohtpy;> me;j muq;fj;jpy; Nf.gp.rhhpd; 12 glq;fs; kw;Wk; rfhdh rPhpaypypUe;J xU 45 epkplk; XLk; mstpw;F xU lhf;Fnkd;il jahhpj;J mtUf;F Nghl;Lf; fhl;bNdd;.  mthpd; gilg;ig ehd; RUf;fp> mth; mUfpy; mkh;e;J urpf;Fk; ghf;fpaj;ij ehd; md;W ngw;Nwd;.  me;j rkaj;jpy; gy ,lq;fspy; vd; iffis ,Ufg; gw;wp jd;Dila kfpo;r;rpia njhptpj;Jf; nfhz;lhh;.  ,ijg;Nghy re;jh;g;gq;fs; xU rpyUf;Fj;jhd; mikAk;.  md;W vdf;F mike;jJ.   kw;Wk; md;wpuT vq;fNshL jq;fp kW ehs; fhiyjhd; nrd;idf;F nrd;whh;.  gk;ghapy; trpf;Fk; ,tUila ,uz;lhtJ kfd; tPl;ilj;jtpu NtW vq;Fk; nrd;W jq;fhjth; vd;gJ gpwF njhpa te;jgpd; nghpjsT ngUik nfhz;Nld;. 

[{iy 9k; Njjp Nf.gp.rhUila gpwe;j ehs;.  gy tUlq;fs; ,e;ehspy; ,thpd; tPl;bw;F ehDk; vd; FLk;gj;jhUk; nrd;W ,thplk; tho;j;J ngWtij ngUikahff; nfhz;bUe;Njd;. xU Kiw vd;idg; ghh;j;J “vd;dplk; Vd; ,t;tsT md;G itj;jpUf;fPwPh;fs;> gy rkaq;fspy; ehd; nefpo;e;J NghfpNwd;> ,jw;Fk; VjhtJ fhuzk; cz;lh?” vdf; Nfl;lhh;.  ePq;fs; xU kfh kfh nghpa fiyQh;> 20 tUlq;fSf;F Kd;dNu xd;iw jPh;khdpf;Fk; Mw;wy; cq;fSf;F cs;sJ> Vwf;Fiwa vd; vz;z Xl;lKk; mg;gbj;jhd;> cq;fSila ,e;j Mw;wy; vd;id kpfTk; fth;e;J tpl;lJ vd;W nrhy;ypaNghJ vdJ iffis gpbj;J FYf;fp ed;wp nrhd;dhh;. 

mtuJ kfd; jpU ifyh]k; kiwe;jJ Nf.gp.rhUila cly; kw;Wk; kd epiyia kpfTk; ghjpj;J tpl;lJ.   jpU ifyh]k; kiwe;j 5tJ ehs; nrd;id nrd;W mtiur; re;jpj;Njd;.  kpf kpf Nrhh;thf fhzg;gl;lhh;. jd;Dila miwapypUe;J ntspNa te;J vd;Dld;   Nrhfj;ij gfph;e;J nfhz;lhh;.   Foe;ijfs; ,Uf;Fk;NghNj nghpath;fs; kiwe;J tpl Ntz;Lk;> nghpath;fs; Kd; Foe;ijfs; ,wf;ff;$lhJ vd;W mth; nrhy;yp tUj;jg;gl;lNghJ> kdJ kpfTk; fdj;J tpl;lJ.  mjw;fLj;j ehl;fspy; ntF Ntfkhf Nf.gp. rhUila cly; eyKk; ghjpj;J tpl;lJ.  kfd; kiwe;j 110 ehl;fspy; me;j xU nghpa rpe;jdhthjp kiwe;J Nghdhh;.  ,wf;Fk;NghJ mth; 84I fle;J 85y; ,Ue;jhh;. 

ehd; rf;fu ehw;fhypapy; mkh;e;J vd;Dila Ntiyfis ftdpg;gtd;.  vg;gb Nf.gp.rhhpd; kiwtQ;rypf;F nry;tJ vd kpfTk; Fok;gpg;NghapUe;Njd;.   vd; kdk; vg;gbahtJ mtiu filrp xU Kiw ghh;j;J tpl Ntz;Lk; vd Jbj;jJ.  me;j $l;lj;jpy; rf;fu ehw;fhypapy; mtuJ tPl;bw;F nry;tJ vd;gJ ,ayhj fhhpak;.  ,Ue;jhYk; xU gpbthjj;Jld; nrd;idf;F FLk;gj;Jld; nrd;W tpl;Nld;.  ehd; nrd;id mUNf nry;y nry;y mtuJ cly; ikyhg;G+h; ,y;yj;jpypUe;J ngrd;l; efh; kpd; kahdj;jpw;F Ch;tyk; njhlq;fp tpl;lJ.

,e;j jUzj;jpy; jpU Nf.gp.rhUila nrayhsh; NkhfDk;> biuth; Nfhtpe;juh[Dk; kpfTk; cjtp nra;jhh;fs;.  Xt;nthU ,lj;jpypUe;Jk; Ch;tyk; vq;Nf Ngha;f;nfhz;bUf;fpwJ vd;w jfty; vdf;F te;J nfhz;Nle;japUe;jJ.  xU topahf Nf.gp.rhhpd; Ch;tyk; ngrd;l; efh; kahdj;ij milAkd; ehd; mq;Nf nrd;W tpl;Nld;.  fl;Lf;flq;fhj $l;lk;.  vd;idg;Nghd;wth;fs; fl;lhak cs;Ns nry;y Kbahj epiy.  mthpd; Kfj;ij ghh;f;f KbAkh vd Fog;gj;jpy; ,Ue;Njd;.   Nf.gp.rhhpd; Adpl;il Nrh;e;j ghG vd;gth; vdf;fhf xU Bik mikj;J vd;id kpd; kahd Nkilapd; mUNf mkh;j;jp tpl;lhh;fs;.   rpwpJ Neuj;jpw;nfy;yhk; Nf.gp.rhhpd; cly; cs;Ns nfhz;L tug;gl;L> mq;Nf itf;fg;gl;L filrprlq;Ffs; eilngw;wd.  Vdf;F xU 5 mb J}uj;jpy;jhd; mtiug; gLf;f itj;jdh;.  mtiu ehd; KOtJkhf ghh;f;f Kbe;jJ.  mth; vdJ gs;spf;F tUif je;j NghJ vd;d cilapy; ,Ue;jhNuh> mNj cilapy; kPz;Lk; mtiu mq;F ghh;j;Njd;.  mtuJ Kfk; vd; gf;fk; jpUk;gpapUe;jJ.  “vg;gb ,t;tsT rpukj;jpw;F eLNt ,q;F te;jPh;fs;” vd mth; vd;id Nfl;gJ Nghy ,Ue;jJ.  mjw;F ehd; nfhLj;J itj;jtd; vd kdjhu mthplk; ehd; nrhd;Ndd;.

gpwF mtiu cs;Ns mioj;Jr;nrd;W tpl;lhh;fs;.  ehDk; ntspNa te;J tpl;Nld;.  Nf.gp.rhh; kiwatpy;iy.  mtuJ glq;fs; %yKk;> mtuJ mwpKfq;fs; %yKk;> fhnkuh %yKk;> trdq;fs; %yKk;> ,irapd; %yKk; vg;NghJk; tho;thh;.  jkpo;g;gl cyfpy; mth ,lj;ij ahuhYk; epug;g KbahJ.  mth; thdpy; cs;s Mapuf;fzf;fhd el;rj;jpuq;fspy; xUth; my;y> mth; thdpy; cs;s KO epyT. thdj;jpy; epyT thdpy; vd;Wk; ,Uf;Fk;> mNjNghy ghyre;jUk; ek; epidtpy; vd;WNk ,Ug;ghh;> ek; epidtpUf;Fk; tiu.

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Monday, 1 December 2014


                             No melody …. No life. 


We lost a good human being in P.B. Srinivas’ death;  how many golden songs he has given to Tamil and Kannada cinemas;  we are very much indebted to the great voice of P.B. Srinivas.   To get rid of stress, I used to sing always old songs, anything in Tamil, Kannada or Hindi;   I never bother about my voice, but surely, after singing his some old songs for an hour, I would become very cool and calm.   On several occasions, songs of PBS helped me very much;    I use to sing always his songs whether it is in Tamil or Kannada. 

Indian cinema has produced two melody kings, one is Rafi in North and another one is PBS in South.  Both are equally great.  PBS voice is so smooth and fits for all occasions.

My favourite hotel in Chennai is Woodlands in RK Salai.  They had another restaurant in the same road called Woodlands Drive-in.  It was a sprawling area with hundreds of very big trees;  even though it was not maintained well, still it was pleasure to visit that  garden and hotel itself was a wonderful experience.  Many VIPs used to come there daily.  We are unfortunate, today we don’t have a place in the heart of the City today.    Whenever I went there, I could see PBS was sitting in a corner of the building, eating dosa along with a cup of coffee.  He was keeping more than 6 pens in different colours in his shirt pocket.  I used to go to his table, start singing his songs.  Without any gap, he joined with my voice.

It had happened several times;  every time, it was a lovely experience for me with him.   In Tamil, Manidan Enbavan Deivamagalam, Kalangalil Aval Vasanthan and in Kannada, Nee Bandu Ninthaga, Suvvi Suvvi Suvvale are all time favourites for me. 

I cannot say there is no singer today in the field like PBS;  I sincerely feel, it the duty of the music directors to tune such melodious songs and try with the singers.  Gone are the days with the legends like Viswanathan and Ramamurthy. 

Will my expectation reach someone who are really concerned ?  If so, I am really lucky and we will get singers like PBS again with the blessings of PBS and Rafi.

Sunday, 10 March 2013

It is exam time in India and parents are under more pressure



This is the time everyone is sitting cross legged with lot of tension in our country.  Yes, it is exam time and somehow every family is concerned with and connected to this period either through their own children or grand children.     The two or three months parents sacrifice their maximum best.  

Parents and children cannot take this period lightly;  as if it is a life saving one, it is being treated in every home in India.  Just because of this stress only, the schooling is not an interested one for the children.    Peak of the learning and teaching is the exam.   There the children fall into the clutches of education.    

I have had an opportunity to talk to a group of students some 15 days ago, in a Counselling;  all of them were going to appear for their X and XII Std. Board  Exams in March and April this year.  I could see that every one was tired, under unimpressive mood and depression.   I felt very sad at this.   They don’t have any interest to take the exam willingly.    

I always like children should be very happy and smiling always, otherwise I become sad.   I know,  normally during the exams the students are under pressure;  but, I see it is growing day by day and surely it is not a healthy sign at all, no authority is coming forward to check it.   Children are not supposed to be this much under pressure.   I am sure, under pressure no one can bring the results.    Only when we are calm and quiet, we can think better and act wisely.  Dhoni, Sachin, Roger Federer . . . .  I can name thousands of people in this list.

Unfortunately we don’t understand this theory;  we, from all the corners give pressure to the students, especially during exam time.  How far are we fare enough, please tell me.  I am always for students and their health.   Whoever harm to them at any time, I would like to treat them as my enemies.    I see when the exams are nearing and in the name of exam and marks, the students lose all their play times and even they don’t eat well.  Naturally their health will go upset and it will take lot of time to recover for them.   These exams should not be the reason at all to spoil the health and mind of our children.  Are we not ashamed of this kind of education?

Buck does not stop here: 

A  friend, who is also a doctor, is also a good Counsellor with lot of concern was discussing with me on this same point.  To her Centre many parents bring their children often;  children’s health and mind are much affected because of exam preparation.   Due to pressure, their performance in exams will go low, there is no doubt.  They lost good sleep and appetite …. These are the complaints.  In some cases, children,  to ease out their tension and stress, involve in many wrong means.  They develop a habit of smoking cigarette and beedi;  some start to drink;  they take drugs;  I could not write here so many students develop other very bad habits, which spoil the entire society ….. students don’t know what exactly they do when they are under stress.    What a pity !

The Marks and Exam stress are too much for this younger generation.  Students can be assessed in thousand ways, not exactly by such.  Let us not torture the children.  The Central and State Governments cannot be the silent spectators at least hereafter.   It has to design the school education system, which should be stress free;  children should love to come to school.  Thus our literacy rate also will improve very fast and there won’t be any drop out.    

Learning and Teaching are a pleasurable ones in Schools for children; unfortunately, somewhere our system is collapsed and instead they have become a punishment.

Today, the teachers are punished for beating or abusing the children in schools, it is excellent.  Same time, when the children are under depression or stress and any school is the reason for it, the recognition of the said school should be cancelled. 

When our Governments will wake up ?

   
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Monday, 4 March 2013

Today’s youth turns towards teaching




I am very happy to learn that many youngsters, who are Engineers and other Degree holders today are showing a lot of interest to become Teachers either in Schools or Colleges.   Even many IITians have resigned their jobs and have jumped into Teaching profession. 

Actually this makes me very happy than anyone.  Because wherever and whenever I speak to others, it is always my feelings that we in schools don’t have adequate number of teachers;  even if we have, we appoint them without any satisfaction.  We find only 5% of the applicants up to our expectations.  If we don’t have better teachers, how can we run the schools well?   How the students will be moulded with a plan ?    Thousands of schools struggle today without better teachers.  Schools accept my version or not, this is only the true picture that is prevailing. 

We receive applications from the candidates for the post of Teachers;  Some of the candidates who have finished M.A. Eng Lit. don’t know even to write Leave Letter when asked.   How these teachers can teach good English to students ?  The Colleges that produce such graduates should come forward to check it’s quality.   Do they think only the qualification is enough without any knowledge?   Finally we see who suffers.

I also understood why the youngsters these days don’t like to become Teachers:  the salary is not attractive to them comparing the IT Sector.  They think, all the Engineers are flourishing in India and all are getting lakhs of rupees every month, altogether an attractive package. I know only a very few of them who shine well, remaining get very less salary like Rs. 8000 to 15000.  

One thing we must note here seriously:  after IT Sectors have come up in our country, all the youngsters are engaged;  they wear decent cloths;  they constantly listen some music even in the parks, buses, roads and even at home.    They ride motorcycles very fast in the streets;  people like me view them only in this way.  Actually that is not all.  

More than enjoying their lives, these young ones suffer a lot.  Morning you can see these youngsters at bus stops waiting for their company buses.  They eat canteen food in the morning and afternoon;  they are squeezed there in the companies;  they don’t get any time to take rest;  companies do have many big Gyms, highly sophisticated physical exercise equipments.  These equipments are kept in the Company Halls to be used by the employees.    But, no Special Trainer is there to see the Gyms are used by the employees.    If the Gyms are used by the employees regularly in the Companies, the health of the employees will be good;  most unfortunately, it is not so. With the help of employees the companies flourish, no doubt.   But what about the employees and their health ?  Are they really flourishing ?  Their health is not sound, just because of their work culture.  They reach home only after 14 hours.  They don’t know what to do on holidays.  Net result … … … . They fall sick at a very young age.  Many at 27 or 28, get heart attacks.  Have we heard of any such thing in the olden days ?

Really it is a shame on this kind of development of our country. “Development of our country”?.... quite the opposite I should say.  Our children are our future and country’s future.  We must protect them with good health.     It is a very good sign, the youngsters have realized the value of their health and come forward to relax in their lives.  They have come to know that money alone cannot give them everything in their life.  That is why the big change in their mindset. 

Of course, the Teaching profession is noble.  Teachers have a very special role in our society.   A single Teacher can produce thousands of geniuses, it is a history.  

I am very happy that there is a welcome change in the mindset of our young India.

Jai Hind      

Monday, 21 January 2013

Dr.M.S. Udayamurthy ... no more today, I am sad



Dr. M.S. Udayamurthy, one of the greatest thinkers of India, is no more today, I am very sad

I deeply regret to inform you all, Dr. M.S. Udayamurthy died today morning at his home, in Chennai. He was one of the greatest thinkers of our country.  He was in USA for quite some time, running a Chemical Industry there very successfully.  He was one of the prominent advisers for Wisconsin University, USA.  Even though he was in USA, he did not forget India, especially our Tamil Nadu.  He wanted to do something for our state.  In 1980s, he returned to India by giving his business to his son and settled in Chennai;  he started Makkal Sakthi Iyakkam, a social organization to help the society.  Meanwhile he had written more than 20 books in Tamil, which carried excellent message for the Nation and Youngsters.   Some of his books were in the curriculum of Universities / Schools in Tamil Nadu.

Dr. M.S. Udayamurthy was a great motivator.   I was attracted by his words and speech, especially the one book "Nammal Mudiyum Thambi, Nambu", later it was filmed (Unnal Mudiyum Thambi) by his friend, Shri K. Balachander who is honoured with Dada Saheb Palkhe award.  Both are hailing from a village called Nannilam, Tanjore District.  I humbly submit here, both these two legends in their own field are very close to me, both are my well wishers, both had come to my school / stayed in our School Guest House, gave wonderful speeches to the students and teachers.   Especially Dr. M.S.U. stayed in our Guest House for a week to write a book and to discuss on education with me. 

To join the rivers at national level, Dr. M.S.U. worked very hard;  written a few no. of books specifically on it.  Went to New Delhi several times to meet Shri Vajpayee, Shri Advani and Dr. Kalam to insist this point.    Many stalwarts and great personalities / visionaries in India have not been recognized in our country, I feel very sad to say.  Surely it is not a loss for such people, but it is  a great loss for our country.

Mr.M.S.Udayamurthy was one of the gems of India, who should been recognized by us.  His works should have been appreciated at the highest level by our rulers.   Definitely our country would have been in a very right track if the minds of such great people were utilised and honoured. 

I and my family members personally lost our great and good friend in Dr. M.S. Udayamurthy. 
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Friday, 18 January 2013

Where are we marching exactly ?




Gang rape has woken up the entire nation. The good news is that many of us are talking about ‘better law, better policing and speedy judiciary.

But we want to raise an equally pertinent issue.
How many of us make our children FIGHTERs? How will someone get so much courage to do such brutal act? Isn’t it when they see the others as weak? Are we in some ways encouraging our children to become weak?

Maybe we ourselves justify many small brutal acts at our homes and schools? Slapping or beating a child is taken as a PARENTING RIGHT. 

How many of us SILENTLY see our kids being punished in schools? Some of us even encourage the teachers to ‘fix’ the child.
How many of us ignore the THREATS to our children? Moreover, how many of us give threats to children - making them live out of fear?

Kids grow with such a big FEAR of law and order that even if the law and order is in place, our kids would never like to enter a police station. Forget about asking for justice.

How many of us allow our children to express “mom/ teacher/guru - you are wrong?”
I was part of one dance performance and kids were scolded, insulted, and threatened …. just so that everybody practices and create a nice dance performance. It was established, “In fine arts the student has to listen to the guru. Children need to learn discipline”.

One wonders what were the children learning - to be disciplined or to be timid in front of authority. 
Why only talk about the teachers, one of the parent told the dance teacher “if required beat her up but ensure she learns how to dance”.

How many of us speak against this? How many of us EMPOWER our child to EXPRESS, THINK and TALK about SELF?

Today children are growing in constant fear of some authority who can be many a times irrational and mostly non-empathetic in their demands / threats. How does one expect a child to think about law and order in such an environment?
  • Study well, else you will become beggar.
  • Come in time to class, else you will get a red mark
  • Sit quietly else you have to go out of the class.
  • Drink milk else you will not get chocolate
  • Finish your homework, else you cannot watch TV
Ah!!!! I am suffocated
I am concerned
I am agitated

I am agitated because the whole nation is talking ONLY about law. As if setting that right will set everything right.
I am concerned that no one is talking about self – we are getting more scared “what if this happens with my child?” I am putting more “CHECKS” on our child rather than making the child EMPOWERED to be able to speak against any injustice, including at home.
I am suffocated. We are using our authority to CLOSE children’s mind and preparing them to NOT TO RAISE their voice anytime in future.

Bullies bully more because no one speaks against them, we are SCARED of them – we are scared of teachers, schools and all kinds of authorities.

Today, ask your child
  • How do you feel when you or your friends are scolded in the class?
  • What all you can do if someone is threatening you, including your parent and teachers?
  • Ask your child “what is your opinion about the police?’
  • Make law and order at home “make codes which are followed by ALL and the defaulters are answerable”.
  • Share this gang rape incident with your child and listen to their views – encourage them to talk about when they think they have been brutally treated by teachers, parents and other children?
  • How can they speak about this?

Let us bring Law and order inside our HOMES and SCHOOLS. Let us RESPECT our children at home and schools. Let us shake ourselves on our own brutal acts or comparing, threatening and disrespecting our own children.

Once children are living in an environment free of fear and authority - then it would make sense to prepare them to deal with dangers that living in a heterogeneous society inevitably puts up. To us empowerment is more about the environment we offer. Once clear thought and assertive action is thriving in children in such an environment preparing them to deal with the demons of the society should be relatively easy.
More about preparing children in sequel to this article.

Aditi
(Team amable)
Genie kids

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Thursday, 3 January 2013

What does a wife expect from her husband ?


கணவனிடம் மனைவி எதிர்பார்ப்பது என்ன...?

1. அன்பாக, பிரியமாக இருக்க வேண்டும்.

2. மனது புண்படும்படி பேசக்கூடாது.

3. கோபப்படக்கூடாது.

4. சாப்பாட்டில் குறை சொல்லக்கூடாது.

5. பலர் முன் திட்டக்கூடாது.

6. எந்த இடத்திலும் மனைவியை விட்டு கொடுக்கக்கூடாது.

7. முக்கிய விழாக்களுக்கு சேர்ந்து போக வேண்டும்.

8. மனைவியிடம் கலந்து ஆலோசிக்க வேண்டும்.

9. சொல்வதைப் பொறுமையாகக் கேட்க வேண்டும்.

10. மனைவியின் கருத்தை ஆதரிக்க வேண்டும், மதிக்க வேண்டும்.

11. வித்தியாசமாக ஏதாவது செய்தால் ரசிக்க வெண்டும். பாராட்ட வேண்டும்.

12. பணம் மட்டும் குறிக்கோள் அல்ல. குழந்தை, குடும்பம் இவற்றிற்கும் உரிய முக்கியத்துவம் தந்து நடந்து கொள்ள வேண்டும்.

13. வாரம் ஒரு முறையாவது மனம் விட்டுப் பேச வேண்டும்.

14. மாதம் ஒரு முறையாவது வெளியில் அழைத்துச் செல்ல வேண்டும்.

15. ஆண்டுக்கு ஒரு முறையாவது சுற்றுலா செல்ல வேண்டும்.

16. பிள்ளைகளின் படிப்பைப் பற்றி அக்கறையுடன் கேட்க வேண்டும்.

17. ஒளிவு, மறைவு கூடாது.

18. மனைவியை நம்ப வேண்டும்.

19. முக்கியமானவற்றை மனைவியிடம் கூற வேண்டும்.

20. மனைவியிடம் அடுத்த பெண்ணை பாராட்டக்கூடாது.

21. அடுத்தவர் மனைவி அழகாக இருக்கிறாள் என்று எண்ணாமல் தனக்குக் கிடைத்ததை வைத்து சந்தோசப்படவேண்டும்.

22. தனக்கு இருக்கும் கஷ்டம், தன் மனைவிக்கும் இருக்கும் என்று எண்ண வேண்டும்.

23. உடல் நலமில்லாத போது, உடனிருந்து கவனிக்க வேண்டும்.

24. சின்ன, சின்னத் தேவைகளை நிறைவு செய்ய வேண்டும்.

25. சிறு சிறு உதவிகள் செய்ய வேண்டும்.

26. குழந்தைகள் அசிங்கம் செய்து விட்டால் “இது உன் குழந்தை” என்று ஒதுங்கக்கூடாது.

27. அம்மாவிடம் காட்டும் பாசத்தை, மனைவியிடமும் காட்ட வேண்டும். ஏனென்றால் மனம் சலிக்காமல் அம்மாவை விட, அக்கா, தங்கையை விட அதிகமாக கவனிக்க கூடியவள் மனைவி

Tuesday, 4 December 2012

Life without power


Everyone knows the condition of electricity in Tamil Nadu for the past 3 years. There may be 1001 reasons from the Government side for this, but at the end of the day the public only suffering.   Let us not have a blame game, it is a waste of time. 

My view is different.  Last week I was in Chennai for a few days.  They are getting only 2 hours power cut for a day.   I have seen the city in the evenings there, they enjoy 100% power, every Marriage Hall is highly illuminated, name boards are glittering, all the cinema halls are functioning without any problem, 100% street lights are on, the company hoardings are shining in the night, throughout.

Really I could not digest this scenario, because I am hailing from a small town, Krishnagiri in Tamil Nadu, could see the worst power situation in and around small towns like ours.  We don’t know when we get power and when the power goes off in our day to day life.   No one can do any work with a plan as at any time the power would go off.   We live in dark.  No one bothers to give power to the people.  Whenever they wish, the EB people give power to us.  But, they have fixed a date, if we don’t pay the EB bill on that day, they have all the powers in the world to take off the fuse carrier from our homes.  We are the consumers and paying money for electricity, but we don’t have anything to say on it.   Just, we have to shut up our mouths. 

Almost all the small industries are shut;  the business and manufacturing units  have come to stand still.    The people who are living with daily wages, blinking for next day’s food. 

Some people have generators at their shops and homes and many don’t have this facility too.  In this situation, how the students would study at their homes, one feels a lot.  To whom we have to take up the matter, I don’t know exactly.
My concern is, the people live in towns and villages are also human beings, workers and have to live with food;  in their work place, they need power, otherwise, no work for them and ultimately no money in their pockets and no food at their homes for them. 

Do the Chennai or City people only have life and the people who live in other than Chennai not to be cared ?  I don’t know what logic lies behind this. 
Many have lost their jobs in small towns and to search for job, they are migrating to Chennai today.   The procession already started in a big way and It is not a healthy sign.  Where is job for all these  in Chennai ?

Please consider the places in Tamil Nadu other than Chennai also.   For the people in Chennai and other big cities should know what is the real condition in other places in Tamil Nadu.  These City based people should not consume or waste this much power, it is my sincere feeling.  The Government should come forward to educate them or supply only a limited power to them.  In these worst conditions, the marriage halls and other important places should be restricted to use this much power;  the Corporate Houses can be instructed accordingly.    When entire villages and towns are in dark, why there should be 100% street lights in big cities ?  We must rise to the occasion.    Someone should bell the cat. 

I hope this bad power problem may be over within a year.  But, up to that, let everyone should share the burden;   why should the villages and towns only suffer ?   I see many hospitals in these towns suffer without power and how much the patients suffer due to it. 

Last month, it was a very good for us in Krishnagiri, there was NO power cut at all for 24 hours, it may be difficult for you to believe it.  But, it is true.   Our Tamil Nadu Governor was here in our small town to attend a function.      

I am quite happy our CM has taken a right step towards this power cut problem.  How much sunshine we waste daily, especially ours is a tropical country.    We can do wonders with the heat of Sun.   Our CM has taken all steps to implement the Solar System in Tamil Nadu.  The Initial cost may be highe but it is only a permanent solution.  

Let us start working on it today itself.   Let us follow Gujarat in this very model. 

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Monday, 22 October 2012

WOMEN POWER IN INDIA






It is very sad, the women power is not realized in our country still.  Perhaps, the women themselves are not taking it seriously, hence,  they are highly suppressed here.

It is a shame for every Indian on this point.

Gandhiji once mentioned, “let us not be proud that we got Independence for our country.  We can be happy only when a woman walks in the street alone at 12 midnight  without any fear”.

New Delhi is branded Rape Capital of India.   What is happening in Haryana for the past 2 months ?  Can we be happy on all such incidents take place in our country ? 

What are our great leaders doing at this ?  Is it not their duty to take some firm action on the culprits and criminals ?  If the action is not taken, such crimes will be happening.  

At this point I sincerely wish to mention, these women folk should not wait for the Governments to come forward to bring an amendment in Assembly or Parliament.      It is unfortunate that the State or Central Govt has not taken it seriously, hence, they won’t bother to bring any rule or amendment.

Then, who has to act ? 

It is the women of our country to be blamed;  it is the women of country who have to act.  They themselves should know to protect themselves, there is no other go for them.  It is India where they are living,  they should not forget.  

The women should learn a martial art in their school life itself and it is the school should feel it is their very duty to teach a martial art for girl children to protect themselves in this kind of society.  

The Government should order all the Educational Institutions in India to teach a martial art to all the girl children.   It should be made mandatory in schools.  If girl children are taught such, surely the  crime rate will come down.    Please read the following small good story which inspired me very much.

In a village, a girl who was 14,  had to cross daily a big play ground to go to a school;  she normally used to go along with her 2 friends.   Often a few boys were teasing these girls and the girls without caring, were going to school.  These girls have not taken this teasing matter seriously.    All the days are not same, of course.   One day, unexpectedly, her both the friends could not accompany her to school due to some personal reasons.    This girl alone had to go to school,  she never bothered on it.  When she was crossing the big play ground, three boys came across and knowing that she was alone, started to tease her a lot;   the girl had warned the boys initially;  but the boys were not in a mood to care her warning;  they were crossing a limit.  This girl repeatedly and gently warned them in the beginning, but no use.  Just she grabbed a boy’s shirt and slapped heavily on his and back;  also by going a little back, with a fiery fist, she rushed forward and kicked two boys with a force on their stomach.  The boys never expected this strong attack from this girl and they fell down heavily.  One boy was screaming with stomach pain and another one was bleeding from his mouth.   Immediately the boys got up and started to run away from the scene. 


The girl silently left the place for her school, with confidence.  This girl knew a martial art;  she was lucky, the school where she studied has taken care of the girl children and their safety.  How many schools do you think in this way today, in India ?  

There are many women stalwarts in India today.       Through this platform, I request them to come forward to think over the safety of the girl children in India and give guidelines to the Governments accordingly. 

It is very pity that a top politician in Haryana saying to perform marriages at young age will solve the ‘rape’ problem in our country.  Another Minister at Centre says to prevent mosquito biting asking every student to wear full pants.  Is this the way really help us ?  To give these golden suggestions, have we sent them to Assembly and Parliament ?    What a shame !  
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